A narrative of being
The claim:
-There is zero independence, to anything knowable. Not objects, not people, not organizations, and so on. Meaning the independence we assume, is actually one thing and only one thing, a duality (inferred). Our experience of a universe that is spread out, across time and space (distance), with objects incorporated inside by organization, is for lack of a better term, an illusion. That this illusion, is the only thing happening, anywhere, both through the division of and unity of the subject/object experience. Any relative individual is as much the expression of reality as they are the creators of reality.
The belief:
-There is an objective universe out there and a subjective universe in here. Meaning there is stuff outside of being, which we cannot know about, by way of inaccessibility or some barrier that protrudes to block our intuition. This barrier might be in the minds eye (limitation of brains), or simply because stuff is far and requires tremendous effort to "get there".
How the claim and the belief actually match as this reality of experience:
-As the claim states, there is no independence. That the claim doesn't seem to match the belief is the division of experience. Which is how/why we feel as though there is some independence, and that it wavers from moment to moment. Our feelings, our experience derive from this division, not in-spite of or in contrast to. This translates well if we infer a local reality in contrast to a remote one (the seeming unrelated or connected in any way). To be fair, one can easily say, it "just takes time to suss" and still be wholly accurate in that assumption and call it progress (or growth).
No back and forth through a thing called space/time:
The claim again states, there are no independent things, which includes the time it takes to manifest the seemingly independent as well as places to go to observe them. It's not a paradox, it simple isn't the case, or has ever been the case. This includes the perspective of a photon that couldn't experience the passage of time and a space that can only experience the eternity of time. This is "where" being lives, not secluded or partitioned from anything else.